Plan with hindsight. Early release

The Wedding Regret Index

Real post-wedding data on what couples regret spending money on — and what was worth it. Anonymous. Aggregated. Updated as the dataset grows.

No vendor sponsorship. No shaming. Just patterns from couples after the pressure is gone.

Anonymous 3–5 minutes No email required

Early release: results reflect submitted surveys to date and may change as responses grow.

Quick snapshot
To date
Surveys
1
Total responses collected
Most common regret
Flowers
100% of surveys selected it
Most worth-it spend
Cake / Desserts
100% of surveys selected it
What you’ll get
  • Regret rates by category
  • Worth-it rates by category
  • Budget surprise patterns
  • Filters by wedding type and size
Take the Wedding Regret Survey
Anonymous 3–5 minutes No email required

How it works

Simple inputs. Clear outputs. No performative wedding advice.

1
Collect anonymous surveys

We ask post-wedding couples the same short set of questions to reduce noise and maximize clarity.

2
Aggregate into rates

“Regret” and “Worth it” are reported as simple percentages by category. We publish sample size and date ranges.

3
Publish patterns, not hot takes

The point is decision support. The data evolves as the dataset grows — and we say so clearly.

Want the index to get better?
If you’re already married, your hindsight is the most valuable input we can collect.
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Take the Wedding Regret Survey

Methodology, up front

Credibility is the product. This is not sponsored content and not vendor pay-to-play.

Anonymous by default
We do not require names. We summarize categories and ranges.
Simple metrics
Most charts are percentages with sample sizes and time windows.
Published limitations
We clearly state when the dataset is small or skewed.

Build the index with us

If you’re planning a wedding, browse the patterns. If you’ve already had one, take the survey and add your hindsight.

Anonymous 3–5 minutes No email required